It is really something to me who comes to you when they know you are going through something - something hard, even if it was the right choice - and who actively chooses not to be bothered. I have always learned the most about people during these times. I have learned through the years not to ask people for help, to talk, because who genuinely cares? I was told a long time ago that if someone is actively aware of your pain, your struggles, and don’t offer a hand, then don’t ask them for help. They will come to you. Those people surprise me, because it’s always who I least expect.